I usually think a lot before doing something ... I consider it good sometimes and bad other times. Sometimes I pick some topic and just think ......................................
4-5 years back during such a long thinking exercise, I came across a thought which I discussed with my few other friends that time and realized that it indeed was a good idea. The thought was something about how we - normal working professionals can efficiently serve Mother India.
Since most of the Indian couples do wish to have atleast 2 children. Then why not have one child of their own and adopt another child. This way one can be serving Mother India in a best possible way and also realise their own wish of having 2 children. When I discussed this with my few friends and one of my friend told me that he will talk to his fiancee about this, I felt very happy.
I know there are many roadblocks in implementing this. For eg .. the couple needs to agree, the traditional mindset of the elders could be one of the issue. But giving this a thought with open discussions amongst the couple is always feasible.
Can this be made reality? Well, it is upto all of us. So friends, let me know your thoughts !!!
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Even if you adopt one child right now and in future you have one of your own, there would be differences in the way society - especially our family and relatives - treat them. Relatives tend to differentiate and that is not good. So, my solution - if you adopt, don't generate one of yours... and that needs lot of courage.
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